We’re building up towards Valentine’s Day and very often you will find the word ‘Love’ all over the internet during this week. However, have you ever thought about it deeply? What is love really? Our emotions and feelings? Or a calculative, mathematical expression? Let’s take a deeper look:
When you are going to college, ‘he/she’ is your junior. Travelling in a bus, ‘he/she’ is sitting in the seat opposite you. At work, ‘he/she’ is your colleague. I am not at all saying that the ‘he/she’ is the same person in all these three different cases!
The pronouns ‘He‘ or ‘She‘ has always remained the same in each one’s life. But, the names (person) behind these pronouns are changing from time to time. Many come to know this universal fact either from their own personal experiences or by learning from their friends and family!
Let me tell you something about this feeling called ‘I LOVE YOU‘. Nowadays, this has become more of a mathematical expression than one’s emotions or feelings. Decoding this equation further, ‘I LOVE’ always remains a constant where as ‘YOU’ happens to be a variable in our lives!
The slow migration from traditional culture to western lifestyle is clearly having an impact on everyone. Love, is a feeling that cannot be expressed verbally. One has to feel it. One can never get its actual meaning just by listening to others experiences. One has to be a part of it to experience it. Try saying it less and feeling it more. The next time you say ‘I love you’ to someone, take a minute to think and ask yourself whether you truly love that ‘he’ or ‘she’.
This article is dedicated to everyone who is doing it the right way rather than in the ‘mathematical’ way. Don’t forget to drop in your comments if you think you understand the words ‘I love you’ better than us. Cheers!
